Michelle Jacobs, Northwestern University

Posted by on Dec 7, 2011 in Students | 0 comments

Michelle Jacobs, Northwestern University

Class of 2011

Double Major in Psychological Services and Dance

There is something really special going on at MEOR. It can be summed up in one word: community.
I never expected that my Friday nights in college would include a Shabbat dinner, but MEOR is different. For the only time each week, I would sit and talk with my friends. Without cell phones, without a television blaring in the background, we would sit at long tables and, over steaming hot chicken soup, discuss our lives, our dreams and goals. MEOR is a place where I could sit down at any chair in the room and introduce myself to someone new. It is a safe space. It is a community.

Four years ago, because of MEOR, Shabbat became a part of my life. Although I was a regular on Friday nights, I never expected to be interested in whatever Jewish learning they were offering. And I wasn’t until my junior year when I discovered that MEOR was offering a two-week trip to Israel for $600. Despite my lack of interest in learning, the trip was affordable and sounded fun.

 

I never expected that this Israel trip would end up being one of the most important and influential trips of my life. We toured the Old City, we swam, we even had a boat party. We also learned everyday. I expected it to be boring and irrelevant, but I was wrong. The learning was intense and meaningful. It was the first time I had confronted serious questions with no easy answers: Who am I and what am I doing here? What kind of life do I want to lead? What kind of person do I want to become?

 

Through this exploration I found depth and meaning in learning about my shared history with the Jewish people. I found meaning in holding values that are not based on societal pressures but what is truly important to me.

When I first stepped foot in the MEOR house, I never expected those initial Friday dinners to become the first step towards an extraordinary and life-changing path of personal growth and discovery—a path that I am continuing through further study in Israel this year.